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MY
TESTIMONY
My path to Jesus started with some powerful seeds as a child but went
through confusing and eccentric turns right up until I got saved in
college.
In the beginning
My parents had decided to raise me Lutheran before I was born. My mother
had been part of the Lutheran church all her life having been raised
in the farm town of Emblem, Wyoming. My dad was raised Catholic in Nogales,
Arizona, but he and his family didn't hold it as a priority. When it
came time to choose what denomination my sister and I would be raised
in, they both decided that my mom would take us to Lutheran church and
teach us accordingly. A few weeks after I was born in Tucson, I was
dedicated and baptized.
Faith like a child
As I remember being a child (and with some help from old photos), I
was very into Sunday School and stories in the Bible. One specific picture
shows my sister and I sitting together in a couch as I read to her out
of a coloring book about how "Jesus loves you." I was an avid
singer of songs like "Go Tell It on the Mountain" and "Yes,
Jesus Loves Me." My enthusiasm in Sunday School helped me to absorb
a lot of info about the Bible stories they'd tell us and I'd be the
first one in the group to shout out the answer to any kind of Bible
trivia. Little did I know that even in an innocent place and time as
that, I was already building up a level of pride and mind idolatry that
would later consume my life. I believe that in my childhood I did have
"faith like a child," a faith that pleased the Lord, but never
did I hear a call to give and live my life for Jesus. I don't remember
a lesson or sermon about having to be born-again to enter the Kingdom
of God by making the single and life-changing decision. It was a decision
that had to be made on my own, between God and me, of my own will, once
for the first time and everyday for the rest of my life. I never made
that decision as a child, and I grew up without that spiritual foundation
in God that I needed (that everyone needs) to really live out the call
of God on my life. However, I know now that even though I wasn't a part
of God's family, he had a very specific plan for me that would bring
me into it later on.
-mind idolatry
1: the worship of a physical object (mind or knowledge)
as a god
2: immoderate attachment or devotion to the mind and knowledge
The In-between Years
Starting in my late elementary school years and peaking during mid-high
school, my drive to know and understand more brought me out of a state
of child-like faith and into a state of religious wandering and secular
humanism. I started not wanting to go to church anymore. My parents
wanted me to go to church all the time and I just didn't want to go.
I faithfully attended my confirmation group even though I didn't want
to. During church and the group meetings, I generally hung out with
my friends to be cynical and judging over everything. It was more of
an issue to make a wisecrack at the right time than to pay attention
and be interested in the Biblical Truths we were being taught. Of course,
at the time I didn't care about Biblical Truths so I never thought anything
of it. My beliefs had become whatever I felt was true based on my observations
of the world and what I could see and understand. My motto was if I
could see, it touch it, and understand it, then I would believe in it.
Anything other than that was close-mindedness. That's why I put so much
stock in science and knowledge. Science is the art of understanding
the world with the mind, by believing in what you see.
I devoted myself to acquiring knowledge in class, TV, internet, and
magazines. I read books about relativity, quantum theory, and the latest
cutting edge theoretical physics. The only thing I cared about was absorbing
knowledge and science. It also drove me to be a perfectionist when it
came to grades. The pride, self-reliance, and idolatry that all came
from needing to understand the world on my own set me on the path away
from God. What I truly didn't understand was faith, and setting your
trust and hope in what is not seen. As Paul wrote "For in hope
we have been saved, but hope that is seen is not hope; for who hopes
in what he already sees?" My "hope" or trust was in what
I could see, not what I couldn't see, namely Jesus Christ.
In my sophomore and junior years in high school, I didn't have to go
to church anymore if I didn't want to. I was more than willing to stay
at home on Sunday mornings. From that point through my sophomore year
in college at the University of Arizona in Tucson, I was always looking
to understand the world and universe in which I lived in my own strength
and comprehension. My "beliefs" changed as frequently as I
changed my socks. I touched all the bases from agnostic, Judaism, and
a bunch of pseudo-scientifically founded beliefs. It all came down to
me being completely indulged in secular humanism. My issue was how could
God, if He loved everyone, let some people go to hell and others heaven?
Especially if some of the people hadn't heard the Gospel or lived their
lives as really good people. Why did God let good people go to hell?
Who is to say one faith is right and the other is wrong? If one faith
is right and people are raised and become decent human beings in another,
why do they have to go to hell?
-secular humanism
1: humanistic philosophy
viewed as a nontheistic religion antagonistic to traditional religion
2: a doctrine, attitude, or way of life centered on human interests
or values; especially : a philosophy that usually rejects supernaturalism
and stresses an individual's dignity and worth and capacity for self-realization
through reason
God's persistence and gift of faith
The Lord was calling me to the U of A from elementary school. It's pretty
clear to me now. My best friend in school was from a family of U of
A graduates and he always teased me about how UA was better than Arizona
State University (ASU). That persistent pestering planted a seed in
me about that school. Later on in my late high school career, I wanted
to double major in Physics and Astronomy which could only be done (at
least in state) at the UA. One of my friends from CompUSA where I had
worked for 2 years went down to Tucson for physics also. He went down
a year before and encouraged me to join him. After hearing all the praise
and seeing the campus for myself, I decided that UA was where I would
go to college.
My freshman year, I became a part of a leadership organization called
Blue Chips. Similar to National Honor Society, it helped students get
knit into the college family quickly with people who were motivated
in becoming leaders on campus. My impressions of the club were similar
to those I had of high school student council: lots of small shallow
talk where nothing really got done (my view of student council may have
been a bad impression, who knows). However, I felt it might be worth
it in the end so I stuck with it. On September 23rd, 2000, my Blue Chips
group had a team building Ropes Course where we would all learn how
to work together. During one of the preliminary games we played where
it boiled down to a bunch of people chasing each other, I ran after
someone and in the process stepped on her foot while we were both running.
My ankle immediately gave way and we both fell to and slid on the ground.
I got up and tried to walk but my right ankle was in a lot of pain.
I resorted to just icing it and keeping off it.
As the day went on, I found how bad an idea that was but everything
turned out exactly as it should have. That evening my ankle swelled
up to 3 times its size and was immovable and extremely painful. I called
my friend from CompUSA who lived in the residence hall next to me. I
asked him if he had a car and could take me to the Urgent Care at the
University Medical Center. He didn't but a guy named Jason Kluge, who
was hanging out in their room at the time (who I didn't know) offered
to take me down there and stay with me while the doctors checked me
out. He came and got me and we went down to Urgent Care as the doctors
checked out my ankle and determined what to do with it. They determined
I had only sprained it but it was very severe; I would have been better
off breaking it. They decided to put a soft cast on me for about a month
as it healed.
During the entire process of examination and casting, which lasted
about 2 hours, Jason and I talked a lot. I learned that he was a minister
on campus and did Bible studies with students. I wasn't a fan of "Bible-thumpers"
or evangelicals because I saw them as pushy and close-minded, but Jason
was very respectful about it. We discussed religious subjects in movies
like my 2 favorite at the time: The Matrix and Dogma. I was very interested
to hear what he believed and even more interested to tell him what I
thought I believed. He asked me if I'd be interested in doing a Bible
study sometime or get together and just talk about either of those 2
movies and discuss any questions I might have. I half-heartedly agreed
to talk about the movies since I wasn't really interested in getting
into a Jason-teaches-me-the-Bible relationship, but I loved talking
about those movies.
Over the rest of the fall semester and the beginning of the spring
of 2001, we met occasionally, watched parts of The Matrix, the whole
of Dogma, and he showed me in the Bible answers to the questions that
were bothering me about Christianity. I was amazed that for every question
I had, there was an answer in the Bible, and it wasn't something that
Jason made up but actually came from the book. What he read to me intrigued
me but didn't budge my unbelieving stance. I just didn't understand
how the Bible could be the Word of God if it was written by imperfect
men. It did however plant more seeds.
In April, Jason left Tucson for Colorado to start a new church up there.
That's when I met another campus minister from the same church as Jason
named Kirk Walker. I met him through my friend from CompUSA since Kirk
knew him also. He was a persistent and energetic guy, similar to myself,
but our persistence was focused on different things. He'd call my room
weekly from the lobby just to see what I was up to. He was always interesting
to talk to but I usually felt obligated to let him in the dorm and hang
out with him for a little bit simply because he was already in the lobby.
We'd talk a lot about a little and never got into a Bible study or in-depth
discussions about Christianity.
As the story goes, Kirk was walking towards my dorm in the morning
for no other reason than that's the way he was headed and he prayed
to God "Lord, whoever you want me to start a Bible study with today,
I pray that they are the first person I see." As he continued walking
next to the library, he saw me walking towards him. I didn't know it
was him since I usually face the ground when it's still the morning.
As soon as he saw me the Lord told him "Ask him about The Matrix."
So we greeted each other, asked me where I was going, and said "So
if you were in the Matrix, would you take the red pill or the blue pill?"
In the movie, the main character Neo has to make a choice between a
red pill, which leads to the truth of reality, and a blue pill, which
leads to blind ignorance about reality. I answered that I would take
the red pill. I wanted to know the truth.
We parted ways and he continued to call me and meet with me with more
of a mission. Still no real Bible studies came of it immediately and
he never forced beliefs on me or disrespected me in anyway, which was
interesting considering my view of evangelists. I did seem to develop
a feeling that he was near, like on campus or when he'd come to visit
my apartment. I still respectfully tried to avoid him but the Lord had
other plans. In late February into March 2002, Kirk would visit me at
my apartment pretty often, usually bringing one other guy that would
hang out with him for the night, meeting people Kirk met with. The topics
of discussion ranged from the behind-the-scenes dirt on the new Star
Wars to how I felt the universe was organized. One of the guys he brought,
Jeremy Gilby, had graduated with an astrophysics degree and was very
capable of carrying on bizarre scientific conversations with me.
March 27th, 2002 came along and Kirk and I had planned to meet at the
student union for a half-hour or so, no different from other meetings
we had when we talked about Star Wars. Most of the details of this night
I don't remember since this 30 minute meeting when on for 2 hours and
ended in the prayer of my life, the one I never knew to pray as a child.
When we sat down in the union and started to talk about what I was doing
for the Easter weekend. I told him I'd probably go to home to Phoenix
and go to church on Sunday where my friend and I would sit in the back
and make fun of the pastor because he looked and talked like William
Shatner of Star Trek fame. After a laughing acknowledgement, he flipped
to 2 Kings 2:23-24 in the Bible. It was a 2-verse story about 42 kids
on a hill making fun of one of the prophets of God because he was bald
and God sending 2 female bears to kill the kids.
For the first time in my adult life, I felt the fear of the Lord come
on me, and for no real natural reason. I'd had be doing it for years
with no problems or feelings of remorse but suddenly I felt that what
I had been doing and was planning on doing was wrong. Even though most
of me didn't want to believe that the Bible could be and might be and
is true, a small part of me though what if this is true? After
more in-depth discussion on why it's bad to mock servants of God, we
got into honoring your parents and how to treat them as God wants. Somehow,
this led into a very long discussion about the founding of the United
States and the Biblical principals upon which it was founded. As a history-lover,
I was very interested in this conversation. Eventually, the question
every secular humanist has came up. I asked Kirk, "What about everyone
else in the world who doesn't believe that the Bible is the truth? Why
can't whatever they believe be right for them and what I believe be
right for me? Would God really send those people to hell who faithfully
followed their own beliefs which were not that of the Bible?" The
answers came in Romans 1:20 "For since the creation of the world
His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have
been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that
they are without excuse" and John 14:6 "Jesus said
to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the
life; no one comes to the Father but through Me'". It
is an act of grace and faith, both of which are gifts from God, to believe
the Bible as the truth. And by doing that, the Scripture itself shows
that no one has an excuse. By simply being alive, that is testimony
enough of the existance of God. And Jesus, being the Son of God, testifies
that only through active faith and belief in Him can someone enter Heaven.
All the other "faiths", being bloodless in nature, do not
have the Truth of Jesus or His blood through which God's plan for redemption
is possible.
At a lull in the lengthy discussion, Kirk flipped to John 3:16, the
most famous verse in the New Testament, if not the entire Bible. "For
God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever
believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life."
I asked Kirk what it meant to really believe in Jesus, beyond just believing
that He existed or even that He was the Son of God. He explained to
me that to completely believe in Jesus in the literal and actual sense
of the word, it meant putting all your trust and hope in Him. To trust
explicitly in Jesus was to stop living for myself and my plans and to
stop trusting in my own ability to get through life, or ultimately get
to heaven. This was something that needed some more explaining and time
to sink in. I was getting my first exposure to true faith and I wasn't
able to understand it. To put all my trust, that part of my being that
allows me to count on other people and expect them to do things, into
someone that I couldn't see, hear, touch, and feel was a completely
foreign thing to me.
My mind had hit a wall and couldn't go any farther in understanding.
I began to realize how futile it was to believe and live in a way that
how I lived my life apart from God, good and honorable or bad and disgraceful,
is what would get me into heaven. That kind of do-gooder-goes-to-heaven
mentality wasn't the Truth at all. It was simply to put all trust in
Jesus and the work He did when He died on the cross and rose from the
dead. I came to the conclusion that faith isn't something that can be
understood with the mind, which is why it is the only thing that pleases
God. It completely takes imperfect human-ability out of the picture
and relies solely and utterly on the unseen God. That trust and faith
in God has to come in all aspects of life from the smallest issues in
life to the big issues like jobs and marriage.
After going through a booklet that spelled out exactly what it took
to become a part of God's family, to trust in Jesus' perfect sacrifice
for my sins, and his boundless gift of repentance and forgiveness, Kirk
asked me if I would like to make the decision to give my life to Jesus
right then. This hit me hard and I wasn't sure what to do-this was the
"once for the first time and everyday for a lifetime" decision.
Here was all this Biblical Truth that had just flooded my mind with
conviction but moments earlier I didn't care if Jesus existed at all.
I still didn't even have completely faith and trust that the source,
the Bible, was true. I just had a feeling that what I had just been
shown in the Bible was real and true. I had to make a decision based
on this, if I would continue to live my life for myself in my own will
and in my own strength or if I would die to that life lived in my own
strength and start to live my life as God had always wanted me to. I
looked around the busy union as I weighed the decision in my mind. One
part of me thought do I really think all this stuff could be true?
Are all these people around here just watching me and thinking 'What
is that guy doing? What is he about to do?' Do I really want to pray
out loud in front of all these people? Why can't I just keep going in
my life the way I have been? Another part of me thought if I
don't pray now, then Kirk and his other guys here will think I'm a fool
or weak. I don't even really know these guys.
Thankfully, a trait that God had instilled in me during high school
which I used for other reasons--the trait that I really shouldn't and
don't care what people think about me and I need to do what I feel is
right--surfaced and I felt that taking this "leap of faith"
into the unknown and placing my life and trust at Jesus' feet was the
right thing to do. I prayed a prayer confessing that I'm a sinner and
have lived my whole life apart from God and that I didn't want to do
that anymore, I wanted to repent for that and follow what God wanted
me to do. I wanted to put my faith in Jesus Christ and make him the
Lord of my life.
After I said amen, I wasn't sure what to think or feel or say. I just
looked at Kirk, and the other guys there, Matt Maynard and Rudy Stadelman,
with a stupefied and wiped out stare without saying a thing. After I
said I didn't know what to say or feel but I need to go think, we all
said bye and I went off to think about what I had just done. After repeating
the simple truth of putting faith in Jesus and live for him, I began
to feel very at ease and secure. That was the start of my new life.
I was 10 minutes old.
My walk with Jesus
Since the day I got saved, I've continued to grow in my relationship
with Christ. I've learned that Jesus didn't just want us to go to church
on Sunday and get on with the rest of our lives every other day; but
to come under authority in the church, to be discipled, to make disciples,
serve each other and the Lord, and most of all to live my life according
to how God tells me to in His Word the Bible and by His word which He
specifically speaks to me. Nothing pleases God more than walking by
faith, not by sight. It's a very simple matter, but a very difficult
thing to walk out. But as Jesus keeps telling me, I'll never be alone
on that walk.
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